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moonchild
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Happy New Year, everyone! I'm stupid excited that 2009 is ------------> GONE! And 2010 has arrived to take it's place. Enough of the ugliness that 2009 gave us. Aren't YOU ready for a fresh start to things? I AM! Of course however, there is still the same old bullshit lingering around like ALWAYS. Year after year, there are always those few people who stay the same route and talk the same shit. Whatever though, right? Keep it moving --> I did come here to vent about some issues and to also, discuss NEW things in my life. So sit back, relax, and fixate on me for a few minutes. ;) So where do I start? I haven't done a me post in a good while. Hm...I guess I'll start off with the whole ex-factor. No, I am not speaking about the show. What is it about some people who break up with a girlfriend or boyfriend and still stay pressed about the person they let go? Is it the inability to let go? Greed? Bitchassness? Or just plain, regret? Let's discuss. See, I broke up with an ex a loong time ago. We hooked up a few times after we broke up...we didn't really end on "horrible" terms. No fighting, etc. However, I always felt that he tried so hard afterward to get back with me. I personally, don't believe in the "let's give it another go" plan..an ex is an ex for a reason. I don't care if you were high on drugs, drunk, won a lot of money, or were just "joking" when you ditched the person. A joke is always the truth and altered states diminish the censors in your brain. So whether we like it or not, you were always going to break up with them. LOL. With that, we never got back with each other..on my part. What I don't understand though, is why people even bother? ALL the people I know who've gotten back together after a break-up, all end up breaking up again anyways...in a shorter time period than they lasted the first go-round. So...why waste your time? I have three friends who have just been dumped. And the person who dumped them, keeps wanting to hang out or wants to "talk about it". Now..wait wait wait wait... "talk about it"? What the fuck? Really, though? You should've been talked about the situation waaaaaaaaay before you wanted to break it off. Two of these people are guys, and of course, their ex-girlfriends are the ones wanting to talk and hang out. If it were me, I'd suspect the tramps just wanted to cut the ties so they could go around and do whatever they wanted, while keeping these poor guys on a short leash in their pockets of tricks and treats. Same goes for the girl, who's the third person..except she's getting a lot of male attention on her facebook since she's newly single. I'd bet the ex-boyfriend isn't too pleased about that. :rollseyes:  This is why I cannot be bothered lmao. Relations are so stupid right now. I don't have time to play these games of beat around the bush and "everyone wants me and you don't have me" Girl, bye. I cannot. Most guys my age are worried about drinking, partying, and doing whatever else stupid shit they do. They can keep that. They really can. I give as much advice as I can to my friends but unfortunately, they're all lovedrunk with "what if's" and "maybe's". Shit, what happened to guarantees? Or at least a warranty. Cause if anyone of them gets back with these notably unreliable people...then I hope they can get the time reimbursed to their lives. I don't see it lasting. Sorry. As for me....the smart single one, I enjoy just talking to people and hanging out. That's guaranteed fun and there isn't pressure. Not saying I sleep with these people...trust me, I don't. Save that for somebody who's actually worth the time and doesn't give me all the aforementioned nonsense of boys my age. If they do, then we may have a deal. 'Til then, we go on fun outings and just chill out. I just really feel like "love" is thrown around so fluidly nowadays and people just step on others so quickly. Our attention spans are extremely low, so if someone doesn't call us back right away or text us right after we send something... "something is up". Get over yourselves. Love doesn't work that way and it is hard to find someone who understands that. I mean, I've been told "I Love You" by so many guys that I wasn't even with and it was based on all the wrong things. "Cause I'm nice and pretty" What? Really? Cause I have good friendship qualities, you love me and think we should be together? ......................... There's no hope if I'm completely exhausted by guys at 21 years old. til next time.. <3 x0x0 |